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I’m So Broken, I Don’t Know Where to Start!

6/8/2015

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This is a comment I often hear from new coaching clients.  They don’t know what’s broken inside them, so they have no idea how to fix it.  They just know they feel awful.

Confusion is typical of child sexual abuse survivors.  The abuse happened when you were too young, and it happened too often.  It became your “new normal.”  In the process, the “wrongness” of this crime sank deep into your subconscious and was buried. 

Now, whenever you try to unravel your brokenness, your brain gets foggy.  Your subconscious won’t allow you to focus on the issue.  It’s still protecting the wounded child inside you.

That’s where I come in.  I help you uncover those hidden areas in your spirit and soul.  Then I show you how to heal them.

The first step is to confront fear.  Healing involves moving out of your comfort zone, and that can be scary.  You might even think you can’t be fixed.  Surviving is all you’ve ever known. 

But that’s not true.  You can be healed.  Why?  Because you’re not really “broken.”  You’re a survivor of horrible childhood trauma.  During the abuse, you developed coping skills to help you survive.  But those childhood skills are toxic to your adult life.  They need to be transformed into healthy life skills. 
 
As we walk this journey together, I’ll show you how to locate those old, toxic coping skills.  Then I’ll teach you how to repurpose them in a way that moves you from surviving to thriving.

Eventually, you’ll fall in love with the new you.  It’s true!  You’ll completely own your past, present, and future.  You’ll be proud of how you survived your past and thrilled with the healthy present you’re creating.

Remember, you don’t really need to be “fixed.”  You just need to take the next big step in your life.  It’s time to make peace with your past.  Then you can live your glorious truth every day with joy. 

And that’s your destiny: joy, joy, joy!  Claim it.  It’s yours!

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Were you sexually abused as a child?  Is your life stuck as an adult, and you can’t seem to move forward?  Svava Brooks is a child sexual abuse survivor, as well as a certified CSA instructor and an Abuse Survivor Coach.  She offers private coaching sessions by phone or skype for child sexual abuse survivors just like you.  For more information, email svava@educate4change.com or call 619-889-6366.  Let Svava help you move forward again on your healing journey!

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