It isn’t what you think. The most damaging aspect of child sexual abuse isn’t the abuse. It’s what the abuse does to you emotionally and psychologically. It’s the hidden burden you had to carry for too long. It’s that shameful secret.
Here’s how it works. My stepfather was a great guy. He was nice to me and to other people. He was charismatic and outgoing. Everyone enjoyed hanging out with him. I did, too. But I didn’t like what he was doing to me. I didn’t understand why it kept happening or what it meant. None of it made sense. It left me feeling alone, disconnected, and confused.
Finally, I decided I must be the cause. Somehow, some way, this horrible thing he was doing to me had to be my fault. I must be a bad kid. I thought this was the truth. It wasn’t.
As an adult, this negative belief held me hostage. It filled me with shame. It made me relive the abuse over and over again, and it kept me isolated. However, through therapy and support I was able to walk away from this negative belief and become the “safe” adult I needed in my life when I was a child.
Maybe that time has arrived for you. Maybe it’s time for you to walk away from the damaging belief that’s holding you hostage and preventing you from living your true destiny. We’re all destined to do great things. What is your heart telling you about your destiny? Whatever it is, listen to it. Your heart knows the truth.
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If you’re ready to walk away from the damaging belief that’s holding you hostage and reach for your true destiny, I’d be happy to show you how to do that. Just follow (this link) or call 619-889-6366 to reserve a FREE 30-minute session with me. My calendar is filling up fast with these sessions, so don’t wait. Let me help you heal your life. Reserve your spot NOW!
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Here’s how it works. My stepfather was a great guy. He was nice to me and to other people. He was charismatic and outgoing. Everyone enjoyed hanging out with him. I did, too. But I didn’t like what he was doing to me. I didn’t understand why it kept happening or what it meant. None of it made sense. It left me feeling alone, disconnected, and confused.
Finally, I decided I must be the cause. Somehow, some way, this horrible thing he was doing to me had to be my fault. I must be a bad kid. I thought this was the truth. It wasn’t.
As an adult, this negative belief held me hostage. It filled me with shame. It made me relive the abuse over and over again, and it kept me isolated. However, through therapy and support I was able to walk away from this negative belief and become the “safe” adult I needed in my life when I was a child.
Maybe that time has arrived for you. Maybe it’s time for you to walk away from the damaging belief that’s holding you hostage and preventing you from living your true destiny. We’re all destined to do great things. What is your heart telling you about your destiny? Whatever it is, listen to it. Your heart knows the truth.
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If you’re ready to walk away from the damaging belief that’s holding you hostage and reach for your true destiny, I’d be happy to show you how to do that. Just follow (this link) or call 619-889-6366 to reserve a FREE 30-minute session with me. My calendar is filling up fast with these sessions, so don’t wait. Let me help you heal your life. Reserve your spot NOW!
Are you on my email list? If you’d like to receive my empowering monthly newsletter and an email with a link to my weekly blog post, click here: http://www.educate4change.com/
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